The holiday seasons should be a joyous time, one spent with loved ones. But for some of our clients, especially those who live a far distance from their loved ones, it can feel a bit lonely. Our client, Ava* faced this challenge recently. She didn’t want her mom, Beverly*, to feel alone during the holidays. However, Ava’s responsibilities coupled with the fact that she lives across the country, … [Read more...]
Tips for a Successful Holiday Season with Seniors
We know that once we get to November and Thanksgiving, the holiday season is in full swing. Your loved one wants to be included in the holiday planning, whether they live with you, live just down the block, or across the country. Including the older adult in your life does not have to cause added stress, and when you plan ahead, you can alleviate a lot of that worry. Here are some strategies that … [Read more...]
What to Watch for at the Holidays – Signs of Decline in Your Elderly Parents
If you are a long distance caregiver, your visit home for the holidays can tell you a lot about whether your elderly loved ones need additional assistance. Here are some signs of decline to watch for during your visit: Changes in personal hygiene Clothing that is worn or inappropriate for the season Bills or mail stacking up Old food in the refrigerator; lack of fresh food Dropped … [Read more...]
Connecting with Elderly Parents over the Holidays
The holidays are a time for connecting with elderly parents and our families, with our traditions, and with what makes our lives meaningful. How can we make this precious time a fulfilling opportunity rather than a stressful rush As usual, a client provided me with insight and inspiration! Today I helped a client prepare her holiday cards. This 93-year-old has traveled and lived all over the … [Read more...]